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What is SPACE Therapy? A Parent's Guide to Child Anxiety Treatment | Kootenay Counselling
What is SPACE Therapy? A Parent's Guide to Supporting Your Anxious Child If your child struggles with anxiety — refusing to go to school, avoiding social situations, or melting down over everyday challenges — you've probably searched for answers. You may have come across the term SPACE Therapy and wondered what it actually means and whether it could help your family. Here's everything you need to know. What does SPACE stand for? SPACE stands for Supportive Parenting for Anxio

Gabriel Roy-Wright
7 days ago3 min read


My Child Just Doesn't Listen! What to do if This Feels Like you.
Try The Listening Switch Method! A Simple, Attention-First Approach to Improving Listening What is often called selective hearing is usually a matter of attention timing, not defiance. When a child’s attention is not fully engaged, verbal instructions may be missed or filtered before they are processed. The Listening Switch Method helps parents secure attention first, then deliver instructions when the brain is ready to receive them. Why Common Approaches Don’t Work Repeating

Gabriel Roy-Wright
Apr 12 min read


The 5 R's of Consequences: A Practical Approach to Teaching Responsibility
In speaking with many parents there is often confusion around consequences vs. punishments. I wanted to clarify the specifics on how you can know that your consequences are actually consequences rather than punishments as punishments exacerbate behavioural issues and erode the child-parent emotional connection. The 5 R's of Consequences provide a clear, respectful, and structured way to guide children’s behavior. This method emphasizes learning from mistakes and encourages ki

Gabriel Roy-Wright
Sep 18, 20244 min read


What is Active Listening and how can it help me?
Active listening, is an important skill for interacting with partners, children, coworkers, and friends. By engaging in active listening skills, we can often avoid painful conflict and reduce our own emotional response to distressing or surprising information. It also helps us calm the emotional responses of others. When we attune, pay attention, mirror and paraphrase, people feel understood and that calms the emotional centres of the brain and results in clearer thinking an

Gabriel Roy-Wright
Jul 6, 20234 min read


Reacting to your kid's challenging behaviour? 5 approaches for effective, learning-based discipline
I often hear phrases from parents such as, "oh we don’t like discipline” or “I don’t like the term consequences it sounds too harsh”. While these statements are well intentioned, they short change children on the ability to learn from their parents. Discipline need not be harsh or overly aggressive. It can be caring, kind, considerate, and effective. I think where the confusion lies is the difference between punishment and consequences. Punishments are retributions for wrongf

Gabriel Roy-Wright
Apr 12, 20224 min read
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